Serious about No Contact this time

by Jodie
(London)

I am serious about No Contact this time. You see, I broke up with an abuser before and went no contact WITHOUT blocking him. In other words, what I did was just to ignore him for 2 months, occasionally replying to his messages bluntly/with no emotion.

I felt great and free and so much happier for two months and forgot about him.

However every time a 'broadcast text' pops up I felt a tiny weeny set back. One day he said for a week straight he loves me, he misses me, he wishes he had me in his life. I fell for it ... we ended up sleeping together and then he cut me off!

I ended up blocking him and I'm starting No Contact again. :/

Make sure you block him ladies!!! These men are pathological liars. It took a week of him declaring his love and showering me with affection, compliments and how he feels like dying now that I'm not with him. He slept with me and then ran for the hills.

Yep he broke my heart yet again, but this time for the last time. These men never change! No Contact is the only way, wish me luck xx