Self-Hypnosis and Relaxation Techniques
Self-hypnosis is basically about changing our negative thought patterns, while relaxation techniques help us reduce the tension in our bodies and minds.
Self-hypnosis works on the subconscious as well as the conscious level by helping us relax and feeding our subconscious mind with positive thoughts and images.
Forget the circus tricks, hypnotic trances and stage hypnotist, this is not about making you do silly things in public or manipulating you into being someone you are not :)
The aim of counselling for instance is to bring the subconscious issues into the conscious, then examine them, address them consciously and trust that the change will sink into the subconscious again. In some ways self-hypnosis short-circuits the process, as when we are in a state of deep relaxation the subconscious is much more open to suggestion. There are loads of 'quack' or largely ineffective self-hypnosis recordings available on the internet, but there are also some very good ones. I have found that for me the ones which use a combination of hypnosis and NLP (Neuro-linguistic Programming) are very helpful and do actually make a difference to the way I feel in myself.
However, THE most helpful method in reducing stress, anxiety and PTSD symptoms have without doubt been the Holosync Solution Instant Meditation CDs. They work by filtering slightly different frequences into each ear (headphones required), which means that the brain has to somehow sort out the dissonance between the two sides. In so doing, it balances the two halves of the brain and creates new neural networks. Once beyond the first stage, which is the Awakening Prologue, there is also the option of additing affirmation to the hypnosis CDs which helps to affirm positive thoughts and attitudes and beliefs in our mind - without any of the conscious stress of doing so! So my personal (speaking both as survivor and as webmaster of Hidden Hurt), would be the Holosync Solution.
This is a basic relaxation exercise which simply helps us be aware of tension within our body and teaches us a way of reducing that tension. If the body is less tense, we tend to be less tense, and therefore less anxious ... the converse is also true, i.e. when we are anxious, our body tends to tense up, so being able to voluntarily un-tense our body is generally beneficial for us both physically and mentally. Here is the exercise:
This is a good exercise to do before listening to the Self-Hypnosis CD or trying to settle down for the night, and I also find that I benefit from doing a 'spot-check' while at work or driving or typing - all activities where I tend to involuntary tense up and not even be aware of it!
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